by anewman | Jun 15, 2026 | Acceptance, Being Real, Change, Choices, Courage, Healing Work, self-Identity, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom— The Damage Of Comparison In An Algorithm Age Comparison has always been a trap. But for men today, it’s no longer just an internal habit—it’s a system we’re immersed in. One designed to move, influence, and control us like products. We live in a world...
by anewman | May 10, 2026 | Acceptance, Being Real, Change, Choices, Courage, Healing Work
Blog by Sholom— You’ve been carrying something that was never meant to be permanent. Maybe it’s time to put it down. There’s a shadow that follows many of us into the room — into men’s spaces, into prayer, into the quiet moments before sleep. It’s the burden of the...
by anewman | Mar 9, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Choices, Core Needs, Healing Work, self-Identity
Blog by Sholom— When a man does his work and begins to understand himself better — his needs, his wounds, his longing for connection — a frightening question often arises: What if the people I love most will never be able to love me in the way I need? It’s a fair...
by anewman | Feb 23, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Core Needs, Healing Work, Male Bonding, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- For many men , there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning, loss, pain or even desire. One of the most common and quietly painful threads in the lives of many, is the experience of having grown up without receiving the kind of fathering...
by anewman | Feb 23, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Healing Work, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- You Are Worth the Wait: A Compassionate Outlook on Healing For those of us walking a path of healing, it’s easy to get caught in a loop of urgency. We want to feel better now. We want to move forward, shed old patterns, find peace, love well, and live...
