by anewman | Jun 25, 2026 | Change, Healing Work, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom— When taking a flight, the flight attendant always begins with the safety briefing. Inevitably, they arrive at the part about the oxygen masks. “If there should be a change in cabin pressure…put your oxygen mask on first before helping others.” Most of...
by anewman | Jun 15, 2026 | Acceptance, Being Real, Change, Choices, Courage, Healing Work, self-Identity, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom— The Damage Of Comparison In An Algorithm Age Comparison has always been a trap. But for men today, it’s no longer just an internal habit—it’s a system we’re immersed in. One designed to move, influence, and control us like products. We live in a world...
by anewman | Mar 25, 2026 | Being Real, Courage, self-Identity, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom— There’s a not so fine line between being real or open and full exposure or brutal honesty. I’ve had countless conversations with others about how they have a desire to be completely open and honest with everyone about who they are. To share their deep...
by anewman | Feb 25, 2026 | bullying, Choices, Courage, self-Identity, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- This won’t be the most eloquent thing I share here but I think it’s still very much worth sharing. Old stories— we all have them. The ones that play like background noise in our minds, especially when we’re tired, stretched thin, or trying to step into...
by anewman | Feb 24, 2026 | Being Real, Core Needs, Healing Work, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- I once saw a meme that said something like, “the strongest people find the courage and the caring to help others, even if they are going through their own storm.” And sure, there’s truth to that — for some men. But I’ve come to see another side...
by anewman | Feb 23, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Core Needs, Healing Work, Male Bonding, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- For many men , there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning, loss, pain or even desire. One of the most common and quietly painful threads in the lives of many, is the experience of having grown up without receiving the kind of fathering...
