by anewman | Jun 15, 2026 | Acceptance, Being Real, Change, Choices, Courage, Healing Work, self-Identity, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom— The Damage Of Comparison In An Algorithm Age Comparison has always been a trap. But for men today, it’s no longer just an internal habit—it’s a system we’re immersed in. One designed to move, influence, and control us like products. We live in a world...
by anewman | May 10, 2026 | Acceptance, Being Real, Change, Choices, Courage, Healing Work
Blog by Sholom— You’ve been carrying something that was never meant to be permanent. Maybe it’s time to put it down. There’s a shadow that follows many of us into the room — into men’s spaces, into prayer, into the quiet moments before sleep. It’s the burden of the...
by anewman | Apr 23, 2026 | Being Real, Change, Choices, Healing Work
Blog by Sholom—In my years of men’s work, there’s one four-letter word I’ve always carefully avoided. It’s caused me tremendous fear and has made my heart twist into knots. I’ve avoided it because of all it’s connotations and what I...
by anewman | Apr 7, 2026 | Healing Work
Blog by Rich Most people don’t realize how much of their life is quietly governed by one question: “What will they think of me?” That single concern shapes what we say, what we share, and what we hide. It influences how freely we show up—and how carefully we try to...
by anewman | Mar 29, 2026 | Being Real, Brotherhood, Change, Courage, Healing Work
Blog by Sholom— There’s a quiet lie many of us carry without even realizing it:If I’m healing, I should be getting better all the time. Stronger. Clearer. More in control. Less reactive. Always moving forward.But that’s not how real healing works. For the men doing...
