by anewman | Mar 9, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Choices, Core Needs, Healing Work, self-Identity
Blog by Sholom— When a man does his work and begins to understand himself better — his needs, his wounds, his longing for connection — a frightening question often arises: What if the people I love most will never be able to love me in the way I need? It’s a fair...
by anewman | Mar 5, 2026 | Change, Choices, Core Needs, Healing Work, self-Identity
Blog by Sholom— They say to write what you know, and unfortunately, I know. If you’ve ever wondered why we sometimes feel disconnected, unmotivated, or strangely numb during moments when we want to feel alive, there’s a simple — and slightly inconvenient —...
by anewman | Feb 25, 2026 | Addiction, Brotherhood, Change, Choices, Core Needs, Healing Work, Male Bonding
Blog by Sholom- When Friendship Becomes a Burden For many men, close friendships man can feel like a sanctuary — a place where we’re finally understood and seen for who we truly are. But sometimes, that same, beautiful closeness turns into something heavier — a...
by anewman | Feb 24, 2026 | Being Real, Core Needs, Healing Work, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- I once saw a meme that said something like, “the strongest people find the courage and the caring to help others, even if they are going through their own storm.” And sure, there’s truth to that — for some men. But I’ve come to see another side...
by anewman | Feb 23, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Core Needs, Healing Work, Male Bonding, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- For many men , there lies a deeper story beneath the surface of yearning, loss, pain or even desire. One of the most common and quietly painful threads in the lives of many, is the experience of having grown up without receiving the kind of fathering...
by anewman | Feb 23, 2026 | Acceptance, Change, Healing Work, Self-worth
Blog by Sholom- You Are Worth the Wait: A Compassionate Outlook on Healing For those of us walking a path of healing, it’s easy to get caught in a loop of urgency. We want to feel better now. We want to move forward, shed old patterns, find peace, love well, and live...
